1. Sudden Changes in His Appearance

If your husband starts transforming into a different man, it may be more than a mid-life crisis. “A man who drastically alters his clothing style, appearance or body shape for no apparent reason may be having an affair. Perhaps the other woman has suggested he grow a beard, wear his hair differently or use cologne. If he’s dressing differently for work, there may be a coworker he’s trying to impress.” Likewise, if your lifelong couch-potato spouse suddenly becomes a gym rat, it may not be you that he’s trying to impress. “He may be trying to look good for a new love interest or keep up physically with a younger woman. Or perhaps the other woman works or works out at the gym he’s showing a sudden interest in going to,”

2. His Attitude Towards You Dramatically Changes

Changes in his mood can point to more than just stressful times at work. “Men often get fidgety or irritable when they’re supposed to be in two places at once. If the other woman demands more of his time, he may start arguments with you so he can storm out and rendezvous with her,”. If he’s not only picking fights, but also criticizing you for things that hadn’t bothered him before, like your appearance, eating habits or intelligence, it’s probably not about the way you chew your food or the 5 pounds you’ve gained, but really about another woman. “Cheating creates a lot of internal turmoil and tension, which gets played out between the two of you. Plus, in order to cheat on someone, you have to be focused on what you don’t like about her. By making that loud and clear, he feels more justified in cheating and less guilty,”

3. He’s Become Distant

“Emotional distance is the number-one giveaway of infidelity, because it’s hard to be emotionally invested in two people at once and to be emotionally intimate with someone while you betray her trust. Most people simply can’t handle the guilt of cheating, so they create space. Plus, distance creates a shield, protecting him from detection—if he doesn’t say much, he’s less likely to say something incriminating,” If your spouse avoids being alone with you and your conversations become purely superficial, he could be pushing you away because he’s growing closer to someone else. “Likewise, if he holds back the warm and fuzzies (i.e. he stops saying ‘I love you,’ no longer holds your hand in public or barely hugs you anymore), he could be cutting off his feelings of affection for you, so he can focus on his new partner without feeling as guilty,”

4. Guilty Behavior

Guilt-ridden behavior is a dead giveaway that your partner is hiding something. He may shower you with affection and attention (giving you gifts for no reason, complimenting you frequently or helping around the house more), but diamonds and doing the dishes aren’t necessarily the signs of an uncharacteristically sweet husband—they could indicate a guilty one. “When a man feels guilty, he may become unusually affectionate or attentive as a way to mask his affair or relieve some of his guilt,”. On the other hand, some men may avoid their partners when they have something to hide, no longer making eye contact or attempts to communicate. “It’s likely that he won’t hold your gaze and engage fully with you, because he’s hiding a secret and he’s afraid you’ll see through him if you really look at him,”

5. Secretive, Unusual or Unexplained Behavior

It’s not just guilty behavior that should make you worry. Anything that can be characterized as secretive, unusual or unexplained—or any behavior that has suddenly and inexplicably changed—could signify that he’s hiding something, warns Manette. “If your partner becomes elusive about his whereabouts, something’s probably going on,” Other indicators that something’s amiss? “The computer screen changing when you walk into the room, hushed telephone conversations or calls taken outside, strange body language when in the company of the new gal at work, reluctance to take you places with him and his friends, and general unexplained behavior that feels suspicious, are all clues that your partner is straying,”

6. You Never See Him Anymore

If he’s suddenly never around, he may really be busy at work or he may be busy with someone else. While he’s likely to have a wide range of plausible excuses for his new absentee status (he’s working a lot of overtime, he’s traveling for business, he’s training for a 10K), they could just be an attempt to cover up the fact that his extracurricular activities involve another woman. “He could be spending the time away from home with her. Although the other woman usually accepts whatever fragment of time the man can give her at first, she typically begins to demand more and more of his time. Conversely, he may just not want to come home because he feels guilty,”

7. He’s Frequently Unavailable or Unreachable

Are you suddenly finding it hard to get in touch with your significant other? Is his mobile phone turned off during times you normally can reach him, or does he claim not to have had any cell service for hours at a time? Or maybe he says he has business meetings all night or a work conference all weekend, so don’t call him, he’ll call you? if he’s frequently unavailable, it may be because he’s with someone else. “This is how he can spend time with the other woman without having to rush home. It’s his way of making sure he doesn’t have to worry about looking over his shoulder constantly and answering to you.”

8. Your Gut Tells You Something Is Going On

If you think he’s acting strangely, hiding something or seeing someone else, don’t ignore your instincts. “A woman’s intuition is the best thing we go by in our business. She knows all of her man’s aches and pains, when he is mad, happy or lonely, and when he’s there in body but not in mind. She knows when something is not right,”. In fact, it’s your instincts that will usually help you recognize the signs of an affair. “There are almost always clues, because it’s a complicated thing—mentally, physically and emotionally—so it requires a lot of adjustments to pull off. These adjustments will appear as something different about your partner and they may be subtle. That’s why it’s best to trust your instinct that something’s off,”

9. He Becomes a Different Man in the Sack

“Both more and less interest in sex can signal infidelity,”. If he’s suddenly rebuffing your advances when he never turned you down before, he could be satisfying his sexual needs elsewhere. “While many couples experience changes in their sexual activity over time, if your spouse is never interested in having sex anymore, you should consider the possibility that he’s having an affair. His mistress may be giving him something sexually that he isn’t getting at home, or because it’s secret and new, it’s more exciting, so he puts all his energy into sex with her,”. Meanwhile, a sudden increase in his sexual appetite could also be the result of infidelity. “Engaging in sex with a new partner can rev up testosterone, increasing his overall drive,”. A third party may also be responsible for a sudden interest in experimenting sexually.

10. A New Woman Enters the Picture

If your significant other repeatedly talks about another woman you’ve never met, there’s a good chance she might be his new lover—especially if, when you question him about her, he says, “She’s just a friend,” but his enthusiasm is just a bit too much to believe. While you may assume no man would be stupid enough to actually bring up his mistress with his wife or girlfriend, experts say many men do. “Sometimes cheaters take the strategy of being half truthful, because in some ways it’s less of a heavy burden if half of the cat is out of the bag. Plus, he may be thinking about this new person so much that he can’t help talking about her,”

11. He’s Overly Defensive

“Why are you asking all these questions?” “Why do you care where I was?” “I was watching the game at Mark’s. If you don’t believe me, call him!” If these defenses sound familiar, your significant other could be up to no good. “When a man becomes overly defensive in response to questions about his whereabouts or behavior, it’s a huge sign that something is not right, because otherwise, he’d laugh it off!”. Meanwhile, if out of nowhere your partner accuses you of cheating, it may be because he’s been unfaithful. “Once a man sees how easy it is for him to become involved in an outside relationship, he begins to view his partner under the same moral microscope. Accusing you of infidelity is a way to deflect his own guilt and poor behavior,”

One Final Caveat…

Before you start following your significant other during his lunch break or hire a divorce lawyer, please take heed: If you’ve observed any of these signs, it doesn’t necessarily mean you’ve got a Tiger Woods on your hands. According to the experts, these behaviors only signal infidelity if they’re a departure from the norm. If your sex life has never been booming or if he’s always been weird about his computer, he’s probably not cheating. But if your once-regular sex life has dramatically dwindled and the guy who used to live in sneakers is suddenly sporting Gucci loafers and designer suits, there might be something else going on. Just remember, while one of these signs does not a cheater make, if you’ve witnessed a few, it’s time to have a talk. Even if he’s not having an affair, addressing issues in your relationship early on can prevent future infidelity

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Here goes the list :

No.10 – Look her in the eye

It can be tempting to look a beautiful woman up and down, and the more beautiful she is, the harder it is to concentrate on the conversation. Just remember, if she catches you staring at her chest when she’s telling you how much her mom means to her, you’ll look like a creep.

No.9 – Be well groomed

Scraggly facial hair styles and even a hint of body odor will kill your chances with women. Women want their men to be well groomed. They want them to look and smell good all the time. That doesn’t mean you necessarily have to be clean-shaven, but any facial hair you do have should be well maintained. Think about it: You judge them based on the way they look. Why wouldn’t they do the same with you?

No.8 – Help her with her coat

If you’re trying to come up with simple ways to impress women, you might think about the kinds of things your grandfather used to do. Women love old-school displays of chivalry. Helping her put on her coat is a great example. It’s a kind, courteous act that’s not so common anymore. That’s why it will help you stand out. It’s also a good way to increase her comfort level with you as it allows you to get close to her without getting too close.

No.7 – Socialize with her friends

When deciding whether or not to ask a woman out on a date, you probably evaluate her personality and her looks, among other things like her sense of humor and her intelligence. Well, women do those things too, but they also think about our potential as partners. And one of the things that speaks to our potential is our ability to fit into her social network. Women are attracted to likable, social, charming men, the kind of guys their friends and families will love. So, engage in conversation with her friends even as you’re working your magic on her. Impress them and you’ll impress her. Just make sure it’s clear that she’s the one you’re interested in.

No.6 – Ignore your phone

Nothing says, “You’re not that important…. ” like taking a call from someone else or checking a text in the middle of a conversation. That’s why ignoring your phone is one of our top 10 simple ways to impress women. The culture of texting has gotten way out of hand. Too many men think it’s perfectly acceptable to take a phone call or fire off an e-mail while you’re on a date or in the middle of a conversation. Well, we have news for you: It’s uncivil. When you’re talking to a woman, let her see you silence your phone or turn it off completely — show her she has your undivided attention.

No.5 – Ask her questions

When you’re getting to know a woman you should do your best to make her comfortable. That means steering a conversation toward a subject she’s comfortable talking about — like her. Just about every woman likes to talk about herself. It’s a subject on which she has a lot of expertise, after all. Asking her questions about her past and her favorite things will allow her to open up and feel comfortable, while simultaneously showing her that you’re interested in more than just her looks.

No.4 – Open doors

Another entry on our list of the top 10 simple ways to impress women: Open the door for her. Opening the door for a woman is a classic gentlemanly gesture. The otherwise admirable push for gender equality has largely eliminated acts of chivalry like this one. Do your part to bring chivalry back by opening the door for her.

No.3 – Compliment the way she looks

So here’s the thing: you want to give her a compliment, but you want it to seem sincere. Thus, you need something a little more original than, “You have incredible eyes.” Give this a shot: Compliment the way she looks in her outfit. Say something like, “You look great in that dress.” It’s a great way of telling her she looks hot without rerunning the same old compliment and it also communicates that you’re attracted to her in a way that, “Cool jacket!” does not.

No.2 – Ask for advice

Whether you’re apartment-hunting or trying to set your buddy up on a blind date, women are impressed when you ask them for advice. It shows her that you value other people’s opinions — in particular, her opinion. Be careful not to come off as clueless here, though; you don’t want to act like you know nothing. You also don’t want to put her on the spot or make her feel uncomfortable. When asking for advice, get her perspective on a limited set of options. For example, does she think you should move into a townhouse or a loft? This kind of question allows her to easily express an opinion, and hopefully sparks a more extensive conversation.

No.1 – Compliment her positivity

Telling a woman she gives off a “happy” vibe will make her feel good. That’s the vibe most people want to give off all the time. It also allows you to then ask her about the things in her life that make her so happy, which will make her feel even better, positive feelings that she’ll ultimately associate with talking to you. This kind of a comment centering on positivity is another one of our top 10 simple ways to impress women.

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No.10 – Big Mac

McDonald’s? You are on a first date at McDonald’s? This isn’t a serious date is it? You are married or are already in a relationship and this is just a place where no one would ever think to find you. If this is a first date, don’t expect a second. In fact, don’t except her to be at the table when you return from taking a dunk in the ball pit.

What she will think of you: She’ll think what the rest of us do: You’re a jackass. Now finish your fries and go home to your wife.

No.9 – Milk

It shouldn’t have to be, said but we will humor you this once: Never, ever order anything from the kid’s menu. There is no reason to order milk — even if you are having a slice of chocolate cake for dessert the size of a Prius. Order an after-dinner drink or just a cup of coffee. Grown men don’t drink milk in public (especially those that may be lactose intolerant). Isn’t that right, Toots?

What she will think of you: She is getting involved with a man-child. A guy who drinks milk with a meal needs a nightlight to sleep and calls mom when he needs his shirt ironed.

No.8 – Vanilla Ice Cream

It’s time for dessert. The waiter brings over a tray of treats that would make Augustus Gloop drop a batch in his lederhosen. Your date orders a slice of decadence and you say to the waiter: “I’ll just have a scoop of vanilla ice cream.” Good plan. You’ve got that dominoes tournament with the rest of the boys at the retirement home in the morning and you don’t want to be up all night with a sugar rush. You then continue your story about not being able to find a good pair of socks. Wake your date up, she will want to hear this story.

What she will think of you: You. Are. Boring. You don’t take risks and you don’t enjoy the finer things in life. She sees a relationship — and possibly sex life — that will be just as boring as the scoop of vanilla melting in the little cup.

No.7 – Fish Sticks

If you are going to enjoy fish, you should always ask the waiter for the fresh catch of the day or order the fish special. There is nothing special about fish sticks. They are also not technically a catch; they are the combination of many catches, fish and a couple of additives that keep them edible for a few centuries. Oh, that’s so adorable the way you cut them up and dunk them into the tartar sauce. Is that what the other kids in daycare do or did you make that up?

What she will think of you: You don’t like to try new foods. Fish sticks are the weapon of a mother with a finicky child. You are a pain in the *** when it comes to eating — or doing anything in life that strays from the normal routine. She will assume that life with you will be like Groundhog Day: living the same day over and over again with no escape on the horizon.

No.6 – Lobster

I understand your thought process in ordering: ”If I order the lobster it will look like money is no object. I’ll come off looking like a complete high roller.” Good call. Bibs are essential to the high-roller wardrobe. Lobster is a bad idea: You run the risk of looking like a pansy if you can’t crack that ****er open. It’s also one of the messiest foods on the menu and leaves you reeking of fish meat and hot butter.

What she will think of you: How could you be a good provider if you can’t bust open a lobster shell? Also, if you can’t always afford the lobster, don’t bother getting it just this once. If she thinks money is no object to you then she won’t understand why you flipped out just because she ordered another glass of wine, new kitchen or house on the opposite coast. It’s your own fault, Uncle Moneybags.

What she will think of you: You won’t pay any attention to her when something else is in front of you. It won’t just be something as simple and delicious as a taco: When the game is on TV or you are one level away from beating a video game (no cheat codes!) she knows she will be as invisible as those refried beans on your plate you haven’t touched. (Smart move, those things will make you gassy.)

No.4 – Corn

Corn is natures’ most annoying food. It’s impossible to digest and finds a way to get lodged in every possible crevice imaginable: in your teeth, in the back of your throat and sometimes up your nose if you try to talk and eat at the same time. That one kernel will be stuck in your tooth the entire meal and you won’t rest until it’s dislodged with your finger, a match box or the end of a butter knife. Also, avoid popcorn should this date include a movie. No one wants to hear you cough up lodged kernels all through an important chick flick. Shh! This is where they first figure out they are in love.

What she will think of you: You are probably disgusting behind closed doors. You have a ton of nasty habits just waiting to come out once the relationship progresses: teeth picking, nostril cleanings and toenail clipping all while watching television.

No.3 – Buffalo Wings

Buffalo wings are a party and tailgating food that somehow snuck onto every restaurant menu disguised as an appetizer. They are impossible to eat without getting sauce all over your face, and the only way to keep the mess under control is to S’uck your fingers. The only licking of fingers on the first date should be done at your apartment. They also come in levels of spice that shouldn’t be experimented with on a first date. The last thing you need is to break into a sweat just from a few atomic wings.

What she will think of you: She will think you don’t know the difference between party food and real dinner food. She will see a lifetime of subs, pizza and nachos on all your special occasions. Nothing is a bigger turnoff than imagining her 10-year wedding anniversary with pictures of her husband pounding beers because he tried the double atomic wings.

No.2 – Salad

Salad as a first or second course is acceptable, but salad as the main course says more about you as a man than the fact that your belt doesn’t match your shoes. It says you’re either worried about your weight (and the last thing she needs is another person in her life with a weight issue) or it could mean that you really are a complete hog but you’re trying to look civilized. Salad prevents you from pigging out on a large dinner, chomping on a T-bone or licking a plate during the main course. It’s also ridiculously boring. Part of the fun of eating out is sampling each others’ meal. You can’t really say: “Wow, try this lettuce. It’s amazing.”

What she will think of you: A man getting a salad means he is either incredibly vain, incredibly cheap or dirt poor. None of those are attractive qualities in a partner. She wants a man that eats more than her — or at least more than the animals in her backyard.

No.1 – Soup

First rule of thumb: You never want to eat more or less courses than your date. For example, if she gets an appetizer, then you should also get an appetizer (sharing is also acceptable). Same goes for soup or salad. There is nothing more uncomfortable than watching someone eat while trying to have a conversation. If you are ordering a first course, avoid every type of soup. Soup is never a good idea on a first date. It’s messy, it’s hot and it’s incredibly hard to eat while maintaining any semblance of coolness. Ever tried to look smooth while shoving ice cubes in your mouth because the top of your mouth is singed? The combo of slumping over and slurping is not a good look. Don’t you dare pick up and sip from that bowl.

What she will think of you: She will think you don’t care about how you look in front of others. If you are willing to sip, slurp, singe, and spill on a first date, imagine how you’ll act the first time you meet her friends or parents.

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Step 1

Look into her eyes. If she is holding a long gaze with you, this is a big indication that she wants a sloppy smooch.

Step 2

Pay attention to her body language. If she is leaning into you or if her legs are pointed in your direction, that means she is most likely into you and is looking to lock lips.

Step 3

Notice if she is smiling at you or laughing at all of your jokes. If so, she will most likely be game for a smooching session.

Step 4

Touch her hand, and see how she responds. Tell her you had a great time on the date. If she responds in the same way and squeezes your hand back, you might be in luck tonight.

Step 5

Drop off your date at the end of the night, and see if there is a delay or a sense that she’s not quite ready to say good-bye. This is a big indication that she wants to smooch. It’s time to go for the gold!

Tips & Warnings

• Pop a breath mint beforehand so that your breath is fresh, in case you have any mouth-to-mouth” encounters.

• Applying a coat of lip balm will make your lips kissably soft for smooching.

• If your girl is giving you signals that she does not want to smooch—for example, if you move into her personal space and she starts to back away from you—do not pursue her. You will not get a smooch in this sort of situation.

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You have seen it done often in the movies and probably on the street in darkened corners. The French kiss is a timeless and passionate gesture of romantic affection. Whether you live in Paris, France or Paris, Texas, you can learn how to kiss like the French do without an embarrassing faux pas!

Steps

Moisten your lips. Dry lips do not move well together. Just a light brush of your tongue over your lips will be sufficient to moisten them.
Angle your head. If your mouths meet dead-on, your noses will get in the way, and you will not be able to kiss deeply or smoothly. To avoid this, tilt your head slightly to one side. Make sure you do not both tilt your heads to the same side.

Close your eyes. As you approach for the kiss, look into your partner’s eyes, but, once you are close to theirs, close your eyes. It can be a bit of a turnoff to be kissing and going cross-eyed .

Start with a gentle and soft closed-mouth kiss. The French kiss is an open-mouth kiss, but do not lunge in with your lips agape like you’re going to eat them; instead, open your lips very slowly. If you were learning to speak French, you would probably start with the basics, vocabulary and grammar, before trying to write poetry. Well, the French kiss is like the poetry of kissing, and before you can be good at it, you have to master the closed-mouth kiss. Even after you have added French kissing to your romantic repertoire, it is usually better to start a kiss with closed lips.

Go Dutch on the decision to French. Kissing should be a shared decision. You need to have permission to French kiss someone, but when your lips are locked with their’s you may not want to stop and ask, “Hey, this is great, but can I put my tongue in your mouth?” Open your lips slowly and just a little during the kiss so that one of your lips is sandwiched between theirs and one of theirs is between yours. As you are locking and re-locking lips, brush your tongue against your partner’s lips ever so slightly. This should make it clear that you want to French kiss. If your partner’s tongue does not respond in like fashion or if they pull away, you will have to save the French kiss for another time when you are both ready.

Explore with your tongue. If you and your partner seem to be enjoying the open-mouth kiss, slowly try to open your mouth a little bit more and gently push your tongue a little farther into their mouth. The tongue is very sensitive, and the mere act of touching your partner’s tongue with your own will be very pleasant and stimulating for each of you. Do not stick your tongue too far into the mouth, as this can be a big turn-off. Instead, just gently and playfully touch tongues.

Go Slow. Passionate kisses are good sometimes, but to really enjoy a French kiss, you must take it slow. Do not hurry and take time to explore each other’s mouths.

Mix it up. Kisses are like snowflakes: no two are exactly the same. Once you finally feel comfortable French kissing someone, it is tempting to try to do the same thing every time. Add variety. Sometimes kiss deeper, for example, and other times pay more attention to the lips than the tongue. Hold the kiss longer or shorter and explore the art of kissing. When something feels good for each of you, do not abandon it for the sake of variety.
Read Body Language. Everybody kisses a little differently, and each person enjoys different things in a kiss – there is no “right” way to kiss. What separates good kissers from bad is an ability to read a partner’s body language and be responsive to their partner. Of course if your partner pulls away or seems uncomfortable at any time, understand that you have to slow it down. Listen for cues that tell how much your partner is enjoying a particular kissing maneuver. If you hear a sigh or moan, or they begin kissing you back with increased intensity, realize that they are responding with fervor.

Develop your style. Good French kissing, like good kissing of any kind, requires practice. You will get better as you do it more. In addition, the more practice you have with one person, the more comfortable you will feel kissing them and developing a style that suits both of you.

Warnings

• To some people a hard tongue is a turn-off. Keep tongue and lips soft and supple…think of the pressure used to L.I.C.K a soft servie ice cream cone, no probing with a stiff tongue unless the other enjoys it. Use variations too to mix it up. Now go practice!
• You can still French kiss if one or both of you has braces, but you should be careful to prevent the braces from touching each other. Also avoid touching the braces with your tongue (you could cut your tongue).
• Excessive saliva can build up during a French kiss, and that can interfere with the romantic moment. Swallow periodically without breaking the kiss. If you have trouble doing that, do not be afraid to pull away for a moment.
• If you ever feel uncomfortable or do not want to move forward with any move your partner is attempting, pull away and let your partner know that you want to stop. Be firm. It’s OK to say no.

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1. Number of Sexual Partners

You don’t really want to know how many guys have been with the girl you are talking to, and you certainly don’t want her to know how many girls you have been with.

One the one hand, the number could be too high and she will think you’re a whore. On the other hand, the number could be too low and she will think that you don’t know what you are doing.

It is also a good to not answer the “how many women have you been with” question with something like “one more after tonight, baby.” Ok, that’s probably bad, too…

2. Bank Account

This is especially a problem in young relationships. Keep your personal crap out of her eyes – because if the relationship ever goes sour you can expect a lot of purchases from Saks to start popping up on your monthly statements.

3. You Love Her

If you are the *** who tells a girl that you love her after knowing her for like a week, you are setting yourself for a good ol’ life ruining. For one, she now has huge expectations and “marriage” is constantly on her mind. Secondly, you have squandered away the upper hand in the relationship and she will now proceed to make you her *****. Finally, you don’t love her yet. You just like that ***. A lot.

4. Your Fetishes

It is not a good idea to ask if a girl if she is into tying guys up and strapping a car battery to a guy’s ******s while he is spanked by two midgets when your relationship is first starting out. Nor when your relationship is twenty years old for that matter. Seriously. Unless that scenario is the ONLY way your weird self can get off, keep it civil for a while.

5. Your Creepy Secrets

Some guys come right out with it and tell a girl about the Big Bird stuffed animal that they have slept with since they were four or about that time they were in the Boy Scouts and the scoutleader did more than bird watch. Don’t be that guy.

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most people reach at a stage of wanting a relationship.

If you reached that point a while back, but still haven’t had any luck, you might want to check

this list to see if anything sounds familiar.

You’re Shallow

If within a few seconds of meeting a woman you have already calculated an estimate of her weight and located any problem areas

where cellulite might lurk on her body, you may hereby consider yourself shallow. No matter how hot she is,
you’re inevitably going to find her flaws. You will likely remain single until you get over yourself.

You’re Too Independent

Being a bachelor certainly has plenty of perks. You don’t have to wait that extra hour for her to get ready for an outing, and you generally come and go as you please. The thing is, at some point you may actually no longer want to be all alone, and you’re going to have to compromise.

Give up a bit of your independence to avoid growing into a lonely old man.

You’re Afraid of Commitment

Tying into your fierce sense of independence is your equally strong fear of commitment. On top of losing your freedom,
you don’t want to get married, only to get divorced later and lose half of your stuff. The future is unpredictable,
and you can bet that once you settle down, you’ll meet a woman who is hotter, smarter and more
successful than the one you’re with. Oh, and she’s going to flirt with you, but too bad — you’re in a
committed relationship. Knowing this, you have every right to fear commitment,
but getting over that fear is what men do.

You’re a Slob

You need a shave and a haircut. Your dirty laundry is more like a mildew-laced pile of odorous rags, so you wear your t-shirt inside out.
There is leftover food on your desk from last week. What’s not to love? Look around, then look at yourself in the mirror.
Are you a slob? Chicks don’t really dig slobs.

You’re a Douchebag

Get your collar popped and layer on that spray-tan — let’s talk about why you’re still single. Could you be a douchebag?
Some women actually like douchebags, but these ladies are generally not the type you’d take home to meet mom.
If you want to meet a nice girl, you’re going to have to tone it down a notch… Or several.

You’re Addicted to Gaming

If by some divine intervention, you actually manage to acquire a girlfriend between day-long bouts of questing,
you’re probably in for a let-down since she won’t be around long. You need to cut back, drastically,
on your playing habits if you want to maintain a relationship. Just remember,
your guild isn’t going to keep you warm at night.

You’re Desperate

Desperation reeks. It’s a fact. Men who are desperate repel women. If you are initially cool enough to get a woman’s phone number,
by no means should you ever call her more than twice without her returning your call. She may be busy when you call,
but if you call repeatedly, you are ensuring that she will never call you back, and even worse,
she’ll hope to never see you again

You’re the Nice Guy

You’re always helpful, polite, and kind — the type of guy every woman wants, right? Apparently not. Guys that are too nice
have a more difficult time moving out of the friend zone than guys who act like complete ****s. Some women even
perceive excessive niceness as a weakness of character. You shouldn’t go full douchebag, but don’t be afraid
to be a little hard, at times. It just lets her know you’re not a doormat.

You’re a Control Freak

It’s your way, or the highway. There’s no room for compromise in your life. You like things the way you like them, and as long as

everything goes according to your plan everything is cool. If you throw a temper tantrum the moment something
is out of your control, you may need to lighten up a little.

You’re Too Shy

There comes a time in your life when you have to either man up and deal with your insecurities or face the fact that you’re going to die alone.
If you don’t have any confidence when approaching women, enlist some friends to help you out. You may need to serve as a wingman
for a while, but pay attention to what the pilot is doing. Observe him and learn how the game is played.
And remember this: Alcohol is your friend.

You’re Selfish

Did you fail “Sharing” in kindergarten? If you only ever think of yourself, get used to it because you’re the only person you’ll have
to consider as you’ll be single for a while. If you can bring yourself to be a little less self-absorbed and a little more considerate,
you may have a shot at a relationship. Try putting others before yourself a little more often.

You’re Broke

If you’re broke all the time, how can you expect to maintain a relationship? You don’t have to buy a girl expensive gifts,

but she will like to go out from time to time. If you’re tired of being single,
you’ll have to work some dating funds into your budget.

Your Friends Are Assholes

It’s true, you’re judged by the company you keep. If you hang out with jerks, you’re likely a jerk too. Even if you’re not,
you can’t stop your friends from acting like assholes and ruining any relationship you might have. G
et some better friends.

You’re In Love With Yourself

You’re wonderful and perfect. You don’t need a relationship because everything you do, say and have is so
delightful there is really no void to fill. It must be great to be you.

You’re a Workaholic

Being career and goal-oriented isn’t a flaw, but it may take away relationship opportunities. If you’re too busy to

have any kind of social life outside of work, you’re already married — to your job.

You’re a Pervert

We all think about sex — a lot. However, if you fail to disengage your eyes and mouth from your perverted thoughts you

will repulse women. If you are looking for a relationship, you will need to learn this skill. It’s also a good idea
to learn how to clear your cache and browser history.

You’re In Love With Your Ex

Your relationships may never work out if you’re still hung up on the one that got away. It’s best to move forward and let it go,

especially if you’re looking for something new. No woman wants to live in the shadow of your ex.
It’s also pathetic, so get over it.

You’re a Douchebag

What were you saying? Sorry, I fell asleep. You’re boring. Nobody wants to listen to you tell the same unfunny stories over and over.
We’re sure your cat is awesome, but come on. Be interesting if you’re going to talk so much,
otherwise just shut up and work the mysterious angle instead.

You’re Obnoxious

You always interrupt when people are speaking, usually to interject a random rude comment. You’re loud and you’re the

only person who thinks you’re funny. You’re like nails on a chalkboard to most women,
So grow up and try listening to people for once.

You’re a Liar

Telling her that her *** doesn’t look big in those jeans isn’t a lie, it’s self-preservation. Telling her you were
at church while you were at the racetrack is a lie. You only have to get caught in one big one to spoil something
that could have been nice. Have the balls to tell the truth, just don’t be brutal about it.

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1. Mind your manners.

“Please,” “thank you” and “you’re welcome,” can go a long way in helping your partner
remember that you respect and love him and don’t take him for granted.

2. Variety is the spice of life.

Studies have shown that dullness can lead to dissatisfaction with a relationship.
Trying something new can be as simple as visiting an unfamiliar restaurant or as grand as a backpacking
trip through Sri Lanka. Discoveries you make together will keep you feeling close.

3. The couple that plays together, stays together.

Find a sport or hobby that you both love (no, watching TV does not count) and make that a priority in your relationship.
Camping, biking, building model trains… whatever it is, find something you enjoy doing together.

4. Fight right.

In order to have productive arguments, keep these rules in mind. Don’t call your spouse names.
When things get really tough, take a break from the argument. Let the other person finish his/her sentences.
Don’t initiate a discussion when you’re angry.

5. I’ll scratch your back if you scratch mine.

No one likes demands (unless you’re in a BDSM role play), but everyone can appreciate a compromise.
If you want your lover to do something and you’re not sure he’ll be agreeable, the quickest way
to avoid a confrontation is to sweeten the deal. For example: “Sure, I’ll watch Monday Night
Football if you take me to see the next movie of my choice.”

6. Two heads are better than one.

Being in a relationship basically means you’ve made a merger; you’ve not only joined assets but inherited the other’s problems as well.
Rather than looking at his problems as merely his own, tackle them together. For example, if he’s gaining weight,
rather than pushing him to diet on his own, enroll in an exercise program together.

7. Distance makes the heart grow fonder.

Maintain your own friendships and occasionally have a night out without your significant other.
Doing things without your s.o. not only makes you miss him or her, it also keeps you sane.
And, in case the relationship doesn’t work out, you’ll still have your friends.

8. Sound it out.

In other words: communicate! Talking out the tough subjects—money, religion, fidelity,
raising kids—will not be the most fun you’ve had, but it’ll be valuable.

9. Laughter is the best medicine.

Learn to laugh at yourself and at silly mistakes. If he throws your $300 cashmere sweater in the dryer, laughing it off is,
in the long run, better than getting angry. It’s is just a $300 cashmere sweater, not the end of the world.

10. Keep your eyes on the prize.

Yes, he forgot your co-worker’s name for the tenth time, but it probably doesn’t mean he doesn’t care about you.
If you keep your perspective fixed on the goal—to be in a happy, functioning partnership—you’re less likely
to get tangled up in every minor annoyance. Remember, you both want the same thing

11. Quitters never win.

Find a ritual and keep it alive, no matter what. Whether it’s always kissing each other good night,
renewing wedding vows every year, sleeping in as late as you want once a month or
committing to having sex once a week, pick something that makes you both
feel good and stick to it, even when you’re tempted to skip.

12. When the going gets tough, the tough get going… to therapy.

Studies show that couples who seek counseling during rocky periods are more successful in resolving their issues than those who don’t.
Whether its from a religious figure, counselor or mental health professional, getting an expert to help sort out strife is
as wise as forgoing self-installation and hiring a plumber to put in a new sink.

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So here i present 2nd and the final part of the two post series of images of some the most sensuous kisses i found on web… so keep enjoy!!!!

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Sensual kissing or Sensuous Kissing, well the name is enough to give a tickle all over the body. Kissing is the most common ways of expressing your love for your partner. Whether too tired or too busy, a kiss is always a sexy way to spice things up. A kiss doesn’t always have to lead to something, but if it does who is complaining?

So here i present 1st part of the two post series of images of some the most sensuous kisses i found on web… so enjoy!!!!

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1. It’s important to have a woman, who helps at home, cooks well, cleans up and has a job.
2. It’s important to have a woman who can make you laugh & is cute.
3. It’s important to have a woman whom you can trust and who doesn’t lie to you.
4. It’s important to have a woman who is good in romance and who likes to be with you.
5. It’s very, very important that these four women don’t know each other

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When a relationship breaks up, there is a good chance that you are feeling very much at a loss. There was something in your life that was giving it a great deal of form and structure and when it is gone, you’ll find that it is very easy to feel a great deal of despair and confusion. The truth of the matter is that you don’t have to feel that way for long. And what’s more, there’s a very good chance that you can actually save your relationship and stop a break up dead in its tracks — even if you’re the only one who wants to get back together.

Let’s start by taking a look at a few steps for getting through the first stages in a break up. But remember, down below at the end of this story you’re going to want to check out the tactics I’ve found that can stop your break up and save your relationship.

Distract Yourself

Immediately following a break up ask yourself if there’s anything you’ve always wanted to try, but haven’t had the time for. You’ll find that being able to distract yourself can go a long way towards helping you feel better. Whether you decide that you want to adopt a cat, try hang gliding or simply go for a road trip, you’ll find that this is a great time to do it, so seize the opportunity to distract yourself and even to learn something new.

Plus, this will give you the needed distance to start to put together your plan for getting back together with your ex, if this is what you want. Also, finding other things to do shows your ex that you can have fun without them — this is one of the things that’s going to help you win them back (see below for more).

Exercise

You’ll find that if you have recently experienced a break up that you might not want to do anything at all. The problem with turning into a first-class couch potato is that there is a good chance that you’ll simply stay one! When you get up and moving, you are creating changes in your body that will affect your brain. You’ll find tat you can literally make yourself feel better through exercise; not only can you get in shape, you’ll feel better too. And that new buff body won’t hurt when getting back into the dating game, or winning your ex back for that matter.

Talk it Out

Find people who you trust and who will spend time listening to you so you can simply get everything off your chest. Be willing to analyze your relationship, figure out what went wrong and figure out what the problems were. Unloading in this way can be instrumental for moving on, and you’ll find that you can learn a great deal simply by making sure that you know just what happened.

Another plus here is that you’ll be better able to avoid those same mistakes in future relationships, or in your second “go-round” with your ex once you get back together.

Get Them Back!

For many people, this is big one! Let’s say you’re not the one who wanted the break up to happen. If that’s the case, then no doubt you’re looking for ways to stop it — to convince your ex that they made a mistake.

While that may seem like the logical thing to do, it’s actually most often a mistake. But, there are definitely some ways to make this happen — some “Jedi Mind Tricks” you can use to convince your ex that they made the biggest mistake of their lives in breaking up with you. A lot of these techniques, like I said, definitely go against conventional wisdom. But that’s exactly why they work so darn well